The amount of times I have asked myself this question… 😂😂 “Do I genuinely have a connection with this person, or am I merely forming an attachment?” And trust me, discernment is crucial here! It’s the difference between deep emotional intimacy and surface-level entanglement. Of course, we all yearn for that special someone with whom we can share a connection that defies explanation… A bond that transcends physical attraction and common interests, stretching across time and space… But too often, we find ourselves trapped in cycles of toxicity, insecurity, and dysfunction. Why does this happen? 🤔 Because we mistake attachment for real connection. These attachment bonds we form are often born from unmet needs, a relentless hunger for validation, or the fear of lonliness. 👉🏽Maybe you’re projecting your deepest desires onto someone, praying they’ll heal your wounds and insecurities? 👉🏽Or is it that you feel you’re unworthy of love and this is as good as it gets? 👉🏽Or (my fav) perhaps you convinced yourself that they’re your cosmic counterpart, fated for this degree of toxicity and turmoil in the connection? ^^ @me in 2022 😭😭 But here’s the thing… life is way too damn short and precious to waste our time, energy, and love on anything that doesn’t resonate with our souls in a profound and genuine way. 🌹🕊️🪞 So, when it comes to the souls we intertwine with in this lifetime... Remember… Attachment tends to breed fear, co-dependency, and drain your energy. It’s fueled by the desire for control, validation, and external approval. On the other hand, authentic connection is rooted in trust, emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and mutual respect. In these bonds, you’ll feel truly seen, heard, appreciated, and understood, flaws and all. Such connections offer a sense of expansion, safety, security, and a feeling of being grounded. There’s no space for confusion or doubt. You’ll know. ———— I’d love to open up a collaborative discussion in the comments on forming meaningful connections!!! Share your thoughts, insights, and personal experiences below! ↓